The article reveals the author's view on the psychological problems of man connected with the formation of a personality of a child at an early age, when the Self-esteem of a child is violated by a personally immature mother. The aim of the study. The causes of the child-harmful upbringing in the family motivate the society to improve the psychological literacy of the population in terms of the problem under discussion, i.e. the early childhood and conscious motherhood relationship. Results of the study.